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Serve Without Agenda

Do you feel as though you are pushing, struggling and forcing for the things you want in your life I would like to invite you to serve, contribute and make a difference for others, and do so with no agenda whatsoever. That means you give up that you need to get anything from people at all. 4 Reasons 2011 Will suck and How to Make Sure It Wont matthewferry.com

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Looking for…Happiness ? episode 1

i just read my old story.. it’s been a long time since i last even thought about it, but i totally laughed at my writing. still it made me wanna write, so here’s something i came up, totally unplanned ______ It was a cold cold winter night and I was walking home. I was watching as couples walked hand in hand, thinking I’d never experience anything like that. How I’d never be loved as all the people around me, how I could never love a person that much.. it’s not like I didn’t want to be happy, I just gave up on my happiness a long time ago. I got tired of everybody telling me love will come, one day I would meet somebody and it would make me forget about everything bad. More specifically I got tired of waiting. One day when I found myself crying over the people who’d never love me I decided this would be it. I’d give up the thoughts of love and just be me, not think about anybody else. So here I am now, 2 years later walking home with a cigarette on my hand. Smoking wasn’t something I always did, actually I used to hate people who smoked. But smoking gives me somekind of relieve from the pain I’m feeling. It makes it go away for a while, and so does drinking. Every weekend I go to a bar or a party, not knowing whose house it is. I just go inside and get drunk. Drinking makes things a lot more fun. I joke around with people and for once I feel like i fit in. But when the next day comes, it all comes back worse. Sometimes I wake up next to a stranger and curse myself for …

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Break up support – 3 keys to get your power back – FOR MEN!

vitalcoaching.com Break up support – 3 keys to get your power back – Power dynamics – battle plan – positive action – What you need to recover from a break up – Why a break up is a battle and hwo to win this – What most guys dont know about break ups – How to solve the break up challenge – Finding a new girlfriend or partner – How get ready to date again – What does it take to survive a break up – Why some men stay in the breakup zone for months or years when it is actually not needed

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The Odyssey of Finding Happiness: An Autistic Manifesto

www.kingmikeforthesakeofargument.blogspot.com This is a Philosophical piece on how I cope with the meaning of life with autism. Feel free to comment if you like. The text for this is down below: This Piece is dedicated to the Many Friends who have stood behind me in times of confusion “Even his griefs are a joy long after to one that remembers all that he wrought and endured. ” Homer, The Odyssey It has been sort of a long bridge in life so far, I say. The Odyssey of my life is very complicated because I guarantee no one would want to be in my shoes with my high-functioning autism. As an out of the closet autistic, I have shared with a lot of people my ability to communicate greatly through writing. The great benefit of this technique is not talking to people face-to-face. I’m rather comfortable with the approach because every time I speak to someone verbally, I often feel like I have to hide in a closet. That sort of feeling drags on and on, and unfortunately, the feeling is a long term feeling. And that feeling is a drug of depression (no, I don’t take any narcotics, it’s a metaphor). I always thought that depression sort of came along with my disability, like I was the only one out of a lot of peers who had a dark feeling of sadness. My illness is sort of chronic; it sort of comes back when Im not expecting it, even when I’m enjoying the company of friends. It stings to a point where I become an eccentric, not wanting to be around anybody. I dare not to shed a tear …

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Oprah Winfrey’s 2008 Stanford Commencement Address

makes you better. So, whatever field you choose, if you operate from the paradigm of service, I know your life will have more value and you will be happy. I was always happy doing my talk show, but that happiness reached a depth of fulfillment, of joy, that I really can’t describe to you or measure when I stopped just being on TV and looking at TV as a job and decided to use television, to use it and not have it use me, to use it as a platform to serve my viewers. That alone changed …